Moving into residential aged care is one of life’s biggest transitions. A lot of clients are hesitant to make this move for many different reasons, and I completely sympathise as the moving process alone is overwhelming. With the fear of a totally new environment, routine, and loss of independence, it can feel overwhelming.

My biggest recommendation is being prepared and planning ahead. This eliminates a lot of the confusion and uncertainty that comes with moving into residential aged care.

In this guide, I’ll share the tips I’ve learned after over a decade helping ageing individuals move into residential aged care.

Here’s what to expect when moving into residential aged care and how to make the process as smooth as possible.

 

Tips on Choosing the Right Aged Care Home

When researching aged care homes, I remind clients to keep these points in mind: 

  • Remember, you are choosing a home, not just a room. Seek out a home that has a strong sense of community and belonging.
  • Contact homes early so you don’t feel rushed and have enough time to schedule tours of multiple homes
  • Pay attention to the homes residents. Do they look content and at ease? Or, do residents appear bored or ignored?
  • Does the home have a good range of games, activities, and events for residents? Ensure you get a copy of the planned activity calendar to see more information about what socialising options, games, and special events are planned.
  • What is the meal plan like? Is there a wide range of meal options, fresh food incorporated, and snacks available? Are you and your loved one able to join for a meal? Ensure you view the menu options, most homes can provide you with a sample menu
  • Do the rooms have/allow any special features (ie, phone, internet access, a mini fridge, etc)
  • What are the staff/resident interactions like? Look for genuine, warm, caring exchanges between staff and residents.
  • Does your loved one have any cultural or religious needs? Ensure they can be met at the home
  • Be kind to yourself and your loved one throughout the process. Be patient with decisions and don’t add any pressure to the process. Don’t be afraid to reach out for the support of friends or family
  • Check the Aged Care Star Rating to understand the resident experience, compliance, staffing and quality of care at the home : https://www.myagedcare.gov.au/
  • Takes notes on each tour so you and your loved one can look back at the likes/dislikes of each place
  • Ask the home if they offer respite care if your loved one is feeling especially anxious about moving into residential aged care, this gives the opportunity to experience the home and its offering prior to committing to permanent placement

For a more in-depth look at my recommendations on choosing the right aged care facility, see my guide here: Choosing the Right Aged Care Facility | How to Get Into Aged Care.

 

5 Tips for Settling in When Moving into Residential Aged Care

Here are 5 key points I emphasise when I’m working with someone moving into residential aged care

1. View the Positives

Moving into an aged care home is typically viewed as a negative thing. This shift has many uncertain aspects, and the loss of independence is often a massive hurdle. However, aged care comes with some great benefits.

Rather than viewing it as downsizing, I like to remind my clients that it is actually ‘upsizing’. Depending on the aged care home, residents have access to their room and common areas, such as:

  • Multiple sitting areas
  • TV rooms
  • Courtyards and outdoor spaces
  • Dining rooms
  • Gyms
  • Activity rooms
  • Some aged care homes even have swimming pools!

Other advantages of moving into residential aged care include:

  • Family members can spend more quality time with their loved one rather than focusing on the logistics of caregiving.
  • Enhanced safety
  • Many residents appreciate the added socialisation and regular activities that can help reduce boredom or loneliness
  • Finding the right fit can help your loved one feel a true sense of community in their aged care facility
  • Improved peace of mind

2. Show Grace and Support

I usually tell families that the first four weeks will be the most challenging. During this time, it is vital to show extra grace and support to your loved one.

Plan frequent, consistent visits that your loved one can count on and check in with them often. Gently remind your loved one that it can take several months to completely adjust.

3. Maintain a Sense of Routine

During times of transition, aim to preserve as much of your loved one’s routines as possible. This will help decrease the shock of moving into residential aged care and maintain a sense of normality.

Try to minimise disruption to their routine by maintaining any regular social clubs, events, appointments, or activity sessions they attend.

Maintaining familiar surroundings and routines can help ease the anxiety and uncertainty that may accompany the transition.

4. Incorporate Familiar Items and the Comforts of Home

Moving into residential aged care usually involves limits on how many possessions can fit into the room. Help your loved one decide which items are most important. Often, staff can be helpful in arranging a room to create a welcoming, home-like environment.

I often recommend:

  • Framed photos of family members
  • Books
  • ornaments
  • Favourite blanket or throw
  • Favourite cosy pajamas
  • A favourite soap or scented lotion

5. Encourage Participation

Encourage your loved one to explore the common areas rather than staying isolated in their bedroom. This can help alleviate loneliness and promote meaningful connections with staff and other residents.

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Caring Guidance for Moving Into Residential Aged Care in Australia

I can’t completely alleviate the worries that surround leaving home. But I am committed to making the transition as seamless as possible for you, your loved one, and your family.

I am honoured to serve as a caring guide for families navigating this challenging process. With a background in nursing and 15 years of specialised experience in aged care, I provide expertise, support, and comfort.

If you need Support for Finding Residential Aged Care, please contact our caring team at Care Match Solutions.